High School ??!!??!!?

my best friend and i dont believe we will be as close in high school, but we have some of the same friends, whom i assume will remain firends with both of us...one of our friends is extremely clingy to my best friend, and i get jealous, especially when they leave me out, i want to stay best friends, and i dont want my clingy friend to become a real issue....how do i maintain my jealousy and my friendship?

High School ??!!??!!?
As a person that's been through this I found that it's best to separate your friendships with certain people. For instance, your one clingy friend's relationship with your best friend should be just between those two. The only way to stop yourself from being jealous is to make yourself not care. Try hanging with your best friend independent of the clingy one, and if you happen to be friends with the clingy one as well, hang with her separate of your best friend. And as for high school, it's a time where people change a lot, but as long as you are both committed to staying friends with one another no matter what, you'll stay friends. If you don't "believe" you'll stay friends, then you probably won't.
Reply:I got the situation before just like you, I know it feels really awful. I think you just stay out of it, pay less attention on your friend and clingy friend, one day they''l feel strange without you, and your best friend may come back to you.
Reply:my bff and i didnt have any classes together when we started high school but we hung out almost every weekend and met eachother inbetween classes. sometimes she would hang out with her other friends and i would too but a little space was good for us and made us better bffs :-) good luck
Reply:dont listen to "jake m" high school can be quite a stressful experiance to start out with! I have personally stayed close with my friends that i had before high school. if you are both really want to stay friends, then make sure that you make time each day to see eachother or talk to eachother at least. maybe you guys have a class together, or you guys can sign up for some of the same activities, it will all work out! Now this one friend that is clingy, if he gets on your nerves, talk to your best friend about it, ask him how HE feels about the clingy one. Together you guys can maybe think of a way to get him to leave your friend alone. If however your friend does like this kid, explain to him how you feel....but dont sweat it, high school is a new and exciting place where you will meet many new people and make new friends. my best friends from jr. high arnt the same best friends i have now (im a senior in HS) but I am still close with them. Your web of friends is just going to grow, not shrink. I am an extremely jelous person, so i know how you feel, you are both maturing and changing but if both of your hearts are really in it, he will listen to you when you say it bothers you and he will try to cut back on leaving you out.....but a wise move is still to try and make new and possibly some different friends, that way you can hang out with others if he wants to hang out with the clingy one





i know that was probably very confusing hahah i got on a roll but i really hope it works out, there is nothing worse then friend problems! good luck
Reply:You sound like a typical freshman......


drama this, drama that....bla bla bla


If you are worried about this, you need to stay in middle school


im in 11th grade and i know girls just like you
Reply:stop being a little drama queen
Reply:jake is right...you will find many friends in high school so no worries. You will have friends not best friends in high school