Monday, April 12, 2010

High school?

i am about to be in high school and i am scared help


sinceraly


bubbles

High school?
Like they said, there's nothing to be scared about or nervous. Just stay focused on school and try to make friends. Remember that cliques only last til the end of high school and its your REAL friends that should matter. Stay true to yourself and you'll always be happier then if you try too hard to be someone else. I graduated almost 3 years ago and let me tell you all the things you think matter in high school (besides the school work) dont! You'll find out who you are. Just enjoy it every day and make as many friends as you can. Its always the kids that got picked on or teased that end up making something of themselves after HS and the 'popular' kids stay the same just without the popularity! Dont sell out and you'll be fine! Good luck and just enjoy being young and have fun! =)
Reply:don't worry , I work @ a high school , high school can be very fun if you let it be .





you can meet all new people in the after school groups that they have %26amp; make some good friends that way too





yes, it can be a bit scary too, with all the changes , but if you ever need help or someone to talk to then go to a guidance councelor , they are very helpful





good luck %26amp; make the best of it
Reply:i'm about 2 be in 7th grade i faile when i was i first so im scared to
Reply:I'm going to be a senior this year and can sincerely tell you that there isn't anything to worry about. it's not like the movies. you won't get stuffed in a locker or anything dramatic. as long as you act mature, people will act mature towards you. and there are so many different people, it's hard not to make new friends.





good luck, you'll be fine :)
Reply:Dont be scared or at least dont look like you are. People will notice if you're the only freshmen who walks around confidently while the others are looking scared. If you're not confident, fake it, and school will be easy to adjust to.
Reply:hmmm high school... i'm the exact opposite to you, im about to finish high school and start uni (which i think will probably be even worse than high school in the beginning!!) so I know what i'm talking about! Well high school isnt really as bad as you expect (unless your first day of high school was in a foreign country, france, without a word of french like mine was!! trust me its scary enough not knowing where you're supposed to be going but on top of that not being able to ask anyone where your supposed to be going! i got totally lost!). So when you start high school the most intimidating thing probably is the fact that you are once again the baby of the school!! that can be quite hard because you're surrounded by "big kids" who can be very intimidating and tend to look alot older and bigger then they really are (i know i know it sounds lame but its the reality!). But although they mite seem kinda scary they arent actually all that bad! so if you do get lost, can't find your class or are worried about anything then they are probably the best people to ask for directions or advise (if a teacher isnt around to help that is) because they are a bit older and therefore a bit more responsible, plus they know the place well and if you do by any chance feel youve embaressed yourself infront of them then it doesnt matter because they arent your year group so you hardly have to see them, they will be gone in like a year and at the end of the day they really dont care all that much about you (not in a mean way but older kids dont tend to keep an eye on the younger ones!). the people you should worry about more are the kids in your year group because they are all gonna think because they are now in high school they are ever so "cool" and can do whatever they want! but truth is they are still just school kids who are infact the babies of the school and therefore not considered particularly important so ignore any teasing (they are just being childish if they do), don't give into peer pressure (the are immature and trying to show off by doing things like smoking or drinking, however thats usually done outside of school) and just make sure you stick with a group of friends who are genuine and who you can count on and have a laugh with! because at the end of the day being popular really isnt important!! I mean in my first year of high school i was in the popular group you could consider the "plastics" but it was honestly quite boring! and the next year i made friends with a group of people who i am still friends with today and who i have always had so much fun with! high school is about having a good time not feeling you have to dress or act in a certain way to fit in! stuff everyone else, if they judge you then thats their problem and they arent worth it! and anyway at the end of the day being popular wont do anything for them at all, i mean nobody will even remember them once high schools over, it doesnt play and role in their futurs at all! so just do what you want! and if you get in with the right people then trust me high school can be really fun! just make sure to be yourself and it will be fine! hope this helps! good luck!
Reply:i was a freasmen this year





but it wasn't bad..it was cool getting to know new people and a whole new school





you'll see a lot interesting looking people but you'll also meet lots of new friends





enjoy high school and your summer





xo
Reply:i feel your pressure. i have no idea what i want to be when i grow up, and im not sure what classes are the best to take. hang in there.
Reply:im so excited because of new friends most people grew up over the summer so dont worry
Reply:Don't be scared. Just remember that high school can be hard only if you make it hard for yourself. Don't give people a reason to talk bad about you and try to do good your classes. HAVE FUN, by all means, but wisely.
Reply:highschool is definetely better..bc there is a wide range of people from all different schools...i was really nervous to and i thout i would get lost but really i never did and it was awsome!!♥
Reply:high school is not a big deal, just dont be involved in cliques, being friends with eveyone is the best thing, it makes you look nice, friendly, and you meet so many people that way. cliques are bad....i thought they were important till i got out of high school and went to college, where no one is in cliques, they just dont matter. be yourself, happy, and friendly, and you will be thrive. Also do you work, get good grades, especially junior year thats the year most colleges look at. enjoy high school, it goes by fast! Good luck :)


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