Wednesday, April 14, 2010

High school!!!?

i just started high school but i hate it! Everyone is so immature and says the f word every other word and i don't cuss at all. I left my old group of friends which were popular and likeable but really loud and not at all like me so i started hanging out with one of my friends in my english class and one of my friends in my science class. I now realize i am only with them because i didn't want to be with the other people and these 2 girls are worse. I feel like a nerd and loner when i hang around them and i am not that type! They don't talk unless i bring up a subject, and when they do i still have to squeeze information out of them. It is really awkward and they are not like me at all! I feel like i have no friends. My mom and sister are even asking me why i have such weird friends and i really want a new group where i am happy...please help what should i do?

High school!!!?
You just started high school so take advantage of some of the new extra curricular activities. Have you thought about joining a sport? Maybe take theater or band. You can make friends through common activities that interest you both. In class sit next to someone new. Talk to different people at lunch. Get to know more people. Don't have so many expectations either. There might be great friends right in front of you but you're not seeing them.
Reply:Try communicating with different people... I hang out with just about everyone at my school. I am a sophmore in highschool so i have been there. I hated my 1st year too. Just try hangin out with different people and try to find some like you. There are most likely some like you at your school.





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Cynthia
Reply:School year just started so try to give it some time hopefully it'll work out I had the same problem so I can relate--it sucks but I'm sure you'll find a friend to keep you having a decent time through the year...hopefully it works out for you;)
Reply:Ask the office for a list of clubs and see what might interest you, then you might find people in the club more like you if they have the same interests. Ask the office when the clubs you are interested in meet and go to a meeting to see if you like it. If you like it, ask them how to join the club.


Also, student government is a good way to meet people and have fun. You don't always have to be elected, sometimes they allow extra people to be "commissioned". Being commissioned is basically volunteering to help the class president, vice-president, etc.. with activities. Then you get to plan and decorate for all the dances and activities at school like, multicultural days, spirit days, etc...


If you want to be in student government find out who the activities teacher or leader is and ask them if you can volunteer or be commissioned.
Reply:Talk to more people.


High school can be really tough sometimes, but as long as you make an effort to socialize with people, it can be really enjoyable.


Try meeting new people in some of your classes. I'm sure they would love to get to know you, but like you, are too shy to initiate any sort of conversation. If they think you are "really weird" or don't want to be your friend, then good riddance! You can always find other people to talk to! As long as you make an effort, you'll find someone (or some people) whom you really get along well with!


Don't worry too much about it though! If you try to force a friendship, it will only turn out worse, and make things awkward!!








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