High School?

Alright, I'm a 14 year-old guy who is going into high school and i'm a bit worried about a couple of things. One of them is how different it's going to be, new people, a new campus, everything, and another is the girls, see, i'm not really the type of person who would approach any girl because i'm a shy person, so can someone help me with this?

High School?
I've just finished my freshman year in High School. After Middle School, I had the same worries as you. Don't worry about it, it's the same as middle school. The only difference is you go for credits. You are going to have a lot of fun. I did and that was just my freshman year.





About the girls...like the other guys said, just be yourself. It's better to be friends with girls that like you for who you are. If you act fake, they're going to find out sooner or later. Then they won't want to talk to you anymore. Losing a friend is very hard thing to go through. You won't want to experience it.





I learned from experience that if I had to act different to approach a girl, it would lead to problems. JUST BE YOURSELF.
Reply:well since i'm a girl i can say this: talk to girls! i'm sure that they want to talk to you! girls like guys that are outgoing! high school isn't just about dating just get to know girls as friend first and go from there! most of the time girls just want guys as friends(well to begin w/) Report It

Reply:Just be yourself. All will be well and you'll be more comfortable. You don't have to change a thing.
Reply:hey bro, first things first... be yourself. theres nothing worse than selling yourself short, dont change so that any other kids or girls will like you... being yourself is the best things you can do. find people who enjoy the same things you do. cliques are inevetable, but getting an education is what youre there for, so do your best...the better you can do in hs, the better off you'll be in college. good luck and dont worry to much, just enjoy it while ya can, you only get to do it once! ttyl bro, peace~





Jordan
Reply:well the girl problem - you should wait till your sophomore year to worry about girls. most of the people i know who were going out freshman year got preoccupied and didn't get good grades.





for the rest of your problems - that stuff takes time, remember when you went into 6th grade...you'll get into the swing of things with in the second week.
Reply:I wouldn't worry that much about High School. Are your friends going to the same school? Hang out with them. They aren't? Join clubs, teams, whatever you can. When your with friends it helps a lot and it doesn't seem so strange. You'll get used to the change.


And with the girls, well.... know that you don't have to approach them, for one thing. They could ask you. Also, I know everyone is saying this, but just be yourself. Note: They will appreciate you if you are honest. And be nice and thoughtful. Think about them once and a while. Give them presents just because. Be sweet and they'll like you.
Reply:Even though high school can seem scary, just remember, there are alot of people who feel the same way you do. Try to be freinds with someone else who seems nervous. Having a freind that understands can mean the world. Also, dont worry about being shy. There are plenty of girls who find that attractive. Just remember to smile if you like someone. They may be the one to make the first move. Enjoy HS. It's some of the most fun you will have in your life!!
Reply:My advice, don't worry about that stuff. High School is going to be the best 4 years of your life. With girls, just be yourself. Don't go out of your way to be out going. If you ever want to talk to somebody, feel free to contact me.
Reply:i will but i shouldn't. when you make the transition it is like going from first to second grade. or how about fifth to six grade. you are just older and hopefully that you have studied so that you are confident returning to school. i have already gone passed to the point now that i had to get a college degree and all the way up to passing the CPA exam. i was always thinking like you. would somebody just please help me! well the answer is no. you should be in the same boat as everyone else. but you are not going to be now do to the fact that i am helpling you. that is not fair. it is like you are asking for the cheat codes to a game. yes people get them all the time. did you learn anything? maybe yes. you now know how to cheat. everybody cheats. now that you know that someone is helping you. are you going to help others? no. Probably not. you will want to see someone struggle. just as long as you are not struggling. you need to respect the fact that you are struggling and that you need to overcome this life experience yourself. you are not going to develop as a person if you cheat. when you go to class, look around. act like you are struggling. you will notice that people will watch you struggle. those people who watch you are cheaters. the cheaters will watch to see if you overcome your problem that you are convinced that you have. they will laugh. those that have already experienced your problem will just watch and hope that you figured out what they did and learn from you. the moral is not to cheat. just face your problems head on and learn. you will develop as a winner faster than the cheaters. high school is not any different from anything else that you have already experienced. you will just get more of it. don't worry about the girls. they are worried 100 times worse than you. they are the ones that can get pregnant. boys are the devil. they are trying to find someone that they can have fun with. you need to think more along the way of making straight A's other than girls and the unknown. guys will help you keep afloat. girls will come when they feel safe enough. you need to be funny and interesting. become a good talker also. don't worry if you can't get a girl. i have met girls that are still single up to 40 or later. they don't have a direction. you need to think about how to be successful like bill gates. try to get a career as soon as possible. you are negative because you have a weak mind. educate yourself as soon as you can. don't listen to liars and idiots. before you graduate you will have college figured out. when you get there, you will see that everyone looks up to you. don't abuse you new powers that i have just given you.

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