High school?

so today i had a bad day because people were so mean. i have been told that people grow up in high school. and im really mad and keep thinking of this, but do people (especialy guys) become nicer? also im worried that i wont have any classes with people that i became close with this year next year.

High school?
the guys become nicer as they get older becuase they realize they may want to date you someday


so the guys definatly become nicer to the girls


it may take time


but hold on


and good luck


your time will come


i am sorry that you had a bad day
Reply:I hate to admit this to you, but I never noticed a difference between people in highschool and middle school. Now I can tell you one thing. It WILL get better in college. Think about it...people in college actually WANT to be there versus people in highschool HAVE to be there. Normally people in college have an open mind.....


To lessen the pains of highschool though..try joining some activities that interest you. For me, in my junior year, I finally realized my school had a journalism staff and that made my time in highschool MUCH more bearable. SoOo, check and see if your school has a debate team, journalism staff, some sport team, sewing club...whatever your interested in. Its a great way to find some friends that have something in common with you and maybe feel the same way about highschool. You may even find some guy in your club that you end up being interested in. ;-),,,
Reply:I think it depends on the person. Some guys grow up and mature while others stay the same forever and act like complete jerks. If you don't have classes with people you know, why not make new friends. It never hurts to have many friendships.
Reply:i do think some people mature and as a result are not as mean as thye were when they were young, but in life there will always be someone who is just not nice and you have to learn to accept that and deal with it. alot of times people are mean because they are hurting about something or feel insecure about them selves. you may never know what their real problem is but you have to assume that something is wrong and they are just taking it out on you for no reason and not take it so personally. the other thing is that you amy not always get to be in the comfort zone with your friends. if you don't have any classes with them try to get together outside class but also be open to meeting new people. you might be really surprised by a new friend. good luck.
Reply:people in high school i hate to say aren't that nice, but if you stick with your friends its always better! yes people do grow up and eventually become nicer, but the trick is to stay friends with old ones and try to make new ones in your classes if they aren't in yours. i've had this same problem, and its worked out to just find people who you can talk to and do projects with in class and then still hang out with your close friends at lunch and also outside of school!
Reply:guys never grow up and their just sumtin u have to deal w/ but dont worry about beein w/ old friends u can find new ones and u can also change classes
Reply:high school is about growing up. im pretty sure that those jerk *** guys you used to know will eventually change. they cant pick their nose for lfe :]] as for your friends. i think its cool that you get to meet new friends. jsut be friendly and people will wish that you were their friend.