Monday, November 16, 2009

High school!!!!!!!!!!!!?

I am a freshman at my high school and i hate school already! So far i have only 3 classes with friends in them, out of 6 classes. My best friend doesn't have any classes or lunch with me, so i sit with few people i don't really feel myself around them. I have few close friends, but they are either gone or don't have classes with me. I am usually shy when i meet people, but when i get to know someone really well, i am really outgoing! I miss my 8th grade year since i had friends in all my classes and it was the best.





What do i do about getting through this? how to i make more friends, dont just say be myself, cause i'm shy when i meet people, thats just how i am.





HELP!!!!!!!!!!!

High school!!!!!!!!!!!!?
going to highschool is really a big step and lots of adjustments but im pretty sure that it will be one of the best part of your life and you will wish someday to go back to your highschool days. here are some tips on how you can win friends and gain self confidence in meeting other people:





be brave to approach somebody


establish eye contact to gain trust


introduce yourself


be interesting by being interested


give compliments and encouragement


and as always "like people first, ask questions later"
Reply:lol just relax be cool and if you do that every thing will run smoothly only if ur anxious or panic will things go bad so just be cool and go to school. ( the end there sounded corny cause it kinda rhymed lol)
Reply:give it time. You'll meet new friends. Now is the time to talk to everyone. You'll find your place. Just get out of your shell. I am shy but back in high school I had the time of my life bc I talked to everyone and found my place ya know? Dont be afraid and dont NOT talk to someone bc they are too pretty or too ugly or too weird. They MAY be awesome. You will love high school, I promise. Keep trying!
Reply:Heyy there=).


I'm a freshman too this year and i know its really tough being in a new environment and all. I'd say try out for teams or join some clubs that you're interested in and then meet people from there and try to be a little outgoing or ask some questions that they can answer. Everyone's a little shy before someone breaks their shell, you definitely don't have a problem speaking to others after you've known them for awhile, so just try to find someone with similar interest so you have something to talk about, be nice, and everything should roll smoothly from there.





good luck!


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